First, relax. Remember this is your life and not a television show or a romantic movie. Fireworks will not automatically explode after you say these special words, I love you.
Now relax, take a deep breath and see if any of these ideas will help inspire you with ideas on how to say I love you to the man you love.
1 - Go the traditional route. Plan a wonderful meal. If you are a good to exceptional cook, you can do the work yourself. If you can’t cook, buy the food all ready prepared for you. Be sure to set the table in a romantic way. Bring out the candles and your best china. Now play some soft background music. Allow the mood to linger and then when the time is right look into his soulful eyes and say I love you.
2 - Do you and your man have a special spot that you share? It could be the place you met or where you went on your first date. This special place could even be an amusement park or where your favorite team plays.
Visit this place together. During the normal conversation, stop. Take your man’s hand. Look deep into his eyes. Tell him how much you have been enjoying the night and finally tell him that you love him.
3 - Wait until the end of the next perfect date with your man. Kiss him goodnight. Make sure it is a long, steamy kiss. As you linger, still standing within his arms look at him in the eyes and say I love you.
4 - Okay, you are not brave enough to say the words straight out, you need a little help. You could try these shy approaches.
Send your guy some flowers. If you think your guy is the type of guy who would appreciate you sending them to his work, do so. He might like the idea of his coworkers seeing how lucky he is. Now attached a handwritten note and say something cute like, just trying to get the guts to say I love you.
If the flowers are still a bit much for you, try sending your guy an ecard. You can find tons of these across the internet. Find one that has great eye appeal. Just make sure it isn’t too funny and it states the words I love you.
Saying I love you to this man who you feel is the man of your dreams can be liberating. It can even help to open the doors to the future, hopefully your bright future with him.
